What Women Really Want

2008-02-22T12:09:00.003-06:00

Men often ask me what women really want. They truly don't understand how simple it is to make us happy. Yes, it's true that we can be difficult, demanding and even vindictive at times. Most of these actions are due to our own insecurities. We want the man in our life to read our mind. We speak in riddles and confuse men. On behalf of all women, I apologize.

Women are natural micro-managers. We have all of these things going on and expect everything to turn out a certain way. We can easily make a mountain out of a molehill. Once our stress level is up, we tend to get bitchy and somehow everything turns out to be your fault. Little things that have been bothering us start pouring out of us and you are left wondering where all of this came from.
Guys, I'm here to tell you that a few simple actions from you can make things much better.

Show the woman in your life that you love her everyday. It doesn't have to be a huge ordeal, but telling her isn't enough. Rub her shoulders if she seems stressed. Give her a hug out of the blue. Volunteer to cook dinner or wash the dishes. Tell her how beautiful she looks. Just do something. If you know she is winding up...unwind her. If you are doing everything you can to show your love towards her she is going to feel like a real ass for directing all of her anger or frustration towards you.

Now, just because you start doing these things doesn't mean you are going to get the response you would like immediately. If doing these things are out of character for you, it may take a while for this to work. She may be suspicious of your motives. Just keep doing it, even when she tries to resist. Once she sees that you are sincere, life should start getting better for everyone.

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What Women Really Want